Connections lost

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Connections lost… 

It’s weird. When I first starting blogging  I loved it. I started blogging for me and only me. And it was wonderful, I met so many new people and met some great connections.. But now I feel like it’s done. I feel like my blog won’t grow, or will I meet new people. I feel like I don’t have any connections to anything. I see everyone’s blogs growing around me and I just sit and wonder why mine doesn’t grow at all. It’s hard.. I want to enjoy blogging again, but I feel like sometimes I’m blogging to no one. And no one wants to feel that way! It’s just hard, I don’t want to quit but I don’t know what to do. I see all these huge bloggers, with tons of fans. And I want be that.. But my blog is stuck. Stuck in a bad spot and I feel like it’s only getting worse! I don’t know what to do anymore. 
What do you all think?? 

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  • In order for your blog to grow it's not gonna blog if no action is taking place. You have to join as many blog hops. You have to find new bloggers you like and add them and get to know them. You have to have blog hops. Guest post. anything and everything to grow your blog. I've reached 265 followers and use to be only 13 and I've had lots of blog hops you can come join and find you new blog friends. It just takes time hun.

  • It can be frustrating when you feel like you're not getting anywhere. I'm sorry you're down about it. Keep your head up!

  • you are just busy right now girl! With your new house! It takes A LOT of time. That is one thing I didnt realize when I first started blogging… its like a job! You need to plan posts, advertise on social media & most importantly.. visit other bloggers! Readers are not going to come to you! You need to go to them! What I realized its about being consistent! I didnt blog for like 3 weeks because I was in the process of moving and my blog stayed the same.. no new readers and no new faces!

    Also! Advertise on other blogs!! Look into blog swaps & maybe even paying for a sponsorship on some big name blogs, than you are involved in guest posts, giveaways, social media shout outs!

    Hang in there friend! I hope its just a funk you are in! Hopefully you get inspired real quick with all the support you have & get back in the blogging action!

    ps. I hope you got my email about our blog swap!

  • I am new to your blog! So there is one new reader AND I am following you on Bloglovin ๐Ÿ™‚

  • This happened to me too at about the number of followers you have. It's just a plateau that seems to drag on forever! Just keep posting, link-up in blog-hops and comment on people's blogs! If you have any questions or anything let me know! I love helping blogs grow!


  • The longer I've been blogging, the more I'm noticing that the numbers don't always mean much. Sometimes even bloggers with a high number of followers don't have many commenters on their daily posts.

    Sorry you haven't been enjoying blogging lately… when I'm in a rut like that I like to do themed link-ups. The inspiration for topic is nice and you meet a lot of new friends that way. ๐Ÿ™‚

  • I feel EXACTLY like you do, I have for awhile ,hoping it would change but it has not, it is like all the fun is gone out of blogging.
    Like it has not grown, ones that was fellow followers seem to of dropped off the planet,and just does not come in even to say hi any more. So needless to say my blogging days are numbered.

  • Joy

    First of all, you need to get back to the original reason you started blogging. You started blogging for yourself, so never forget that. No matter if no one even clicks on that post that day, you are still doing what you want to do, and that is blogging. The numbers don't mean much, so forget about them. Stay true to yourself here on your blog. But, never give up! You have a voice, and an opinion and you should never give it up!

  • Another blogger passed on this link to me and I thought it might help you too!
    Stopping by from the grab a friend link up ๐Ÿ™‚

  • Hey! I found your blog through the blog hop ๐Ÿ™‚ I am looking forward to following your blogging adventures, I love it already! Be sure to check out my blog at

    -Jess @ Forever Convinced

  • Aw, I think all of us bloggers go through this at some point. Just think back to why you started blogging and what you enjoy most about it. And don't be afraid to self-promote! We all gotta toot our own horn sometimes. ๐Ÿ™‚

  • if you love blogging, don't give up!! read up on tips for bloggers and try new ways to get your blog out there!! I definitely used to feel this way at some point, but you'll be inspired to keep going if you truly love it! check out my post on "why I love blogging" ๐Ÿ™‚

    good luck!!

  • I agree 100% with Mia above! I feel the same way more often than not. Just keep writing and we will keep reading. ๐Ÿ™‚